My question for this week is what are you supposed to do if you feel as if your significant other is falling out of love with you? What are the signs? What do you do? How do you try and get over your feelings? Is there something wrong with you?
I think if a person begins to feel this way you can tell because they never want to be with you or don't tell you they love you anymore. Really I believe you should approach them and ask them how they feel and tell them how you feel. If you find out your feelings are stronger for them than their feelings are for you then just forget them. I knw that is easier said than done, but people just grow apart sometimes. You can't think of it as something being wrong with you. You may be maturing or know what you want out of the relationship and the other person doesn't. It is usually the guy that is not mature enough. Boys usually mature slower than girls anyway.
I wis boys could be more like girls, as far as sensitiviy goes. They do get hurt, but they don't react like girls. Girls are very emotional creatures. In my opinion, I wish I was not so emotional and don't get attached to people. That is with any relationship I have.
Having feelings sucks and I'll be honest I feel like this now. I wish I didn't. I want to be like forget you! Well that is me being in my feelings this week!
You know, Chelsea, I think I have a few signs for you. My previous relationship was on the rocks after a traumatic experience on my part. The signs of your significant other falling out of love with you begin as follows: if he texts you a lot...expect less from him. He begins to be more involved with his friends and kinda just...leave you alone. (It might depend on the guy) When I finally worked up the courage to talk to him. I broke up with him because one, he wasn't even there for me and two it was better if I got myself back together and not rely on him. That whole "we should be friends" line. Trust me, I didn't even cry and for a while I forgot about him and then crazy stuff began...ugh...anywhoooo, I'm like that. I get attached so it's hard to let go and then there are those random thoughts of me seeing him and totally not care he's there. I'm in a better place now. I'm happier. Work through this cloud of doubt, try to find the sunshine and get back to being happy.
ReplyDeleteZoe makes some great points...I think communication is key. If you sense that feelings are changing, have a serious conversation about it. Our imaginations can sometimes be our worst enemies and having that conversation can often alleviate some doubt.
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