Manifesto of Fed Up Faithful Lovers

Love is a beautiful thing. Staying in one committed, confirmed, and monogamous relationship is a true accomplishment. This is what people like me long for. As with any good thing, there are always ways to ruin it. In this case, there are a group of people who ruin it and they are called Cheaters. A cheater is a person who acts dishonestly, deceives, or defrauds. They usually will have other partners in a relationship. This shows people like us, Faithful Lovers Association or FLA, the lack of respect or love for someone you claim to love. If a person is completely committed, there should be no reason to cheat. Which is why our motto is: “Stay faithful or stay single!”

We, Faithful Lovers Association, believe that cheating has to stop. Cheaters have been around for ages and they have ruined our society, not only as in relationships, but all other aspects of life. There are way too many damaged hearts out there, because of this ruthless, careless act. We believe this problem needs to be eliminated. It is an issue that hurts the hearts of men and women alike. It affects a person’s future relationships and mental and physical health. For example, in future relationships it could cause major trust issues. Without trust in a relationship there is nothing. Mentally, it could cause a person to be so hurt by the cheater that they may want to commit suicide. Physically, a person may contract a sexually transmitted disease or the person may start eating less because of depression. These are reasons why we, Faithful Lovers Association, strive to find all faithful lovers and become a unified front. We want our own society, where being faithful, trusting, and loving are our only options. 

 As might be expected of a cheater, they have numerous excuses. Since every cheater is different, I’ll give you three reasons that I have heard from cheaters myself and my opinion against them. First of all, the cheaters who cheat instead of breaking up with the person. I understand if you have been in a relationship for a while, but that still does not give you a right to crush someone’s feelings, especially if they are being faithful to you and treating you right. Just simply break up. If you truly love someone, you need to let them go. If you do not, you should not have been with them in the first place.

 Secondly, a person cheats often because they feel unloved or unwanted. Most people can tell when they are not wanted. Obviously, the other lover is making them feel better. In that case, why would you still be with someone who makes you feel neglected? Just break up and be with the other person instead of cheating.

Lastly, the cheaters who want to be in a relationship with two people just for the hell of it. It is like living a double life, neither person even knows about each other. Some cheaters sincerely get a thrill out of having two different lovers. It was explained to me by a cheater that the lover you have been with the longest is like home, and the other lover is like a vacation spot. Either way you put it, this is an outrageous idea! Instead of having just one broken heart, you now have two devastated souls. They both were played like a Xbox 360.

For the reason above, the faithful partner is not the only one who hurts. This deceiving act affects a person’s family and friends. They never want to see their family or friend hurt. This also affects the mental and physical aspect and all relationships the future holds for that person. Think about it like this, if I dropped a porcelain heart on the ground and it shattered into one-hundred pieces, I probably would not be able to put every single piece back together. Now, there is a lost piece that will never be found again. It is just like that every time someone gets cheated on. Their heart is broken, and they will never be the same.

We, FLA, want to take a stand by suggesting a few solutions. First, for the benefit of our society, we will have cheater educational classes. These classes will be held once a week and will teach college students the signs of a cheater, all the reasons why they cheat, and how to catch a cheater. For any civilian who believes they are being cheated on, they have the right to file a police report. The cheater must then, by law, take a lie detector test, at the many lie detector clinics. In addition to the lie detector test, there will also be counseling for the cheaters and the victims. If the cheater fails the test, they must register as a Faithless Offender. Any curious civilian can go to the lie detector clinic website, enter the person’s first and last name, and Boom! There are the results of the test and the person they cheated with. By doing this, these cheaters will forever shamed and humiliated for their actions. This will greatly affect any of their future relationships, just like their victims. Karma is true b*$#*!

These rules we, FLA, believe will help our elite society. The satisfaction of knowing that less hearts will be broken and true love will flourish is truly our motivation. This is why we will always stand by our motto:

 

"Stay faithful or stay single."