Friday, October 18, 2013
Honesty is key.
I was just thinking and I want to to know why in relationships we can't be honest? Why do we have to lie to each other and make things worst. No one likes to be lied to. Even though I know the truth hurts sometimes, I'd rather be hurt by the truth than hurt by lying. I know some people lie, and think that your saving another person's feelings, but in reality, it will hurt worst once or if they find out later.
No matter how hard it hurts, you have to accept it and move on. I had to come to that decision today, but I still haven't exactly decided what I'm going to do yet. I'm not sure if I should just give up or keep trying my hardest. No matter what decision I make I just want to be honest with myself and him.
On another note, I really need y'all help with topics. I just go completely blank and I know there is a lot I have an opinion on, so if y'all would give me suggestions in my comments. That would be greatly appreciated.
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Completely agree with your post Chelsea. I've had multiple relationships where me and the girl were fighting and I found out in the long run I was lied too. Like you said, why not be told the truth than rather go through the stupid lies!? Great post!
ReplyDeleteThis is a great post, Chelsea. It's as the saying goes "Honesty is the best policy." Lying ultimately shows that one side of the relationship may not be able to fully trust either their boy/girlfriend or worse yet, THEMSELVES. I see you ask for suggestions and I found a great way to find a topic for your blog. Sit down on like Wednesday or Thursday and reflect on your week. You'll begin to see similarities and major differences. For example, let's say last week was all about food, now this week, it's all about honesty. Certain topics might be discussed more than others during the week. Hope that helps :)
ReplyDeleteThis is probably the greatest post ever!! I guess I can relate because I'm in a serious relationship and honesty is a big thing for us. It is totally best to be honest no matter how hard it is to get the truth out so I question honesty as well.
ReplyDeleteChelsea, I agree. I preferred honesty, no matter how hard it hurts, rather than lies. As far as topics, Zoe had some great suggestions. I might also jot down notes throughout the week if you see something or read something that catches your attention. Scroll back through your FB or twitter page to see what people are chatting about that might interest you or that you have something to add to the conversation. Maybe review a movie or book that deals with relationship issues. If you have trouble, let's meet!
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